Best Summer Yet

It is getting close to Summer vacation for our children.  I have heard from many parents that they are dreading it, and just as many that love it.  I thought it was interesting because both sides were very passionate about their feelings.   I can understand both.  Here are some things you can try if you want to have the best Summer yet with your children:  Plan activites that they enjoy.  There are many things you can do with them that do not cost a dime.  Biking, picnics, free concerts, day at the beach, library visits, to name a few.  If too many activities are what you are dealing with, ask them to pick one thing that they would be willing to give up. It's OK..just let it go.  If you plan activities with other children, try to pick friends that they actually like and get along with.  It's great if your children love your friend's children, but some times that is not the case.  Be sure to have some alone time (maybe you and another parent can alternate being responsible for play dates).  If you're a working mom, sit down with your babysitter and plan things out together.  Let your children be involved in the conversation.  When my children were school age, I made sure to have one day a week to spend with them exclusively in the Summer.  We just hung out and played, read books, went for ice cream, went to the pool or lake.  It forced me to take time to live in the moment.  It is these days that I treasure and remember.  Take the time to enjoy your Summer with your children...you all deserve to chill out and have fun.  Make it the best one yet!  If you have any concerns or questions about what the best thing is for your family this Summer, please contact me.